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RE: [RC] [RC] Mare/confidence/rider safety/help - Long - Laurie Durgin

Well, join the club. I finally am starting to reride my mare after a fall. I think you may need more steps between riding around the farm and going on a local trail ride. Do alot of mundane riding to boost both your confidences first, only what is comfortable , then add one more thing. I also suggest you have an obstacle course. poles on ground, plywood on ground, barrels, tarp in small piece working it up to a bigger piece. Plastic bags on a stick that you follow around while whipping it on the ground, mylar balloons, stuffed animals on ground, let your immagination run rampant. Walk around this stuff , follow it, drag it--then trot it, rearrange it, etc. Start on the ground just leading her around it or over it. She will get used to handling new stuff, always try to stay calm. Add a calm down cue, like lowering head or facing it and standing and reward . Leadin lessons, learning to disengage her hips etc. When she acts silly , put her to work , on circles or lateral moves etc.
All this stuff helps to build ocnfidence and trust for her to see you as the leader and safe base.
Local trailrides can be dangerous . Some riders have very untrained horses, and then you could have drinkers etc. Just pick who you are riding with carefully. They may sabotage your work .....Try to find someone you can buddy up with to go with you. But then I too work alone, so I understand. But when I go to trailer ,I plan to meet up with someone.....
If you need more specifics on what I mean I will let you know. There is some good stuff out there for exercises, "John Lyons on the Trail Tapes", Clinton Anderson had a good show or two on RFD-TV about despooking (though it is MY OPINION,that his exercises are 'too intense" sometimes and need to be scaled back for sensitive horses.) Good books out there.



From: "Mel Copeland" <brio_gal@xxxxxxxxxxx>
To: ridecamp@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: [RC]   Mare/confidence/rider safety/help - Long
Date: Wed, 22 Sep 2004 09:27:26 -0400

My big plans for my Paso Fino mare have fallen through. I am still wanting to try for my first LD this spring. I want to do this this so badly that I am resorting to desperate measures. I pulled my 17 year old Arabian mare out of the pasture and rode her for the first time in 5 years. The last few times I had ridden her years ago she laid down with me and was rearing and tossing her head. She really scared me. I had been afraid to ride her since then. This weekend I decided that if I really want to get started with endurance I will just have to bite the bullet and start riding her again. In the past few years I have learned alot about saddle fit and realized that most of my problems with Lady were probably stemming from saddle fit. She is a very broad mare. She is about 9" wide at her withers. She has alot of substance and is a VERY easy keeper. I borrowed a friend's super wide western saddle and it seems to do the trick. I will continue to use the saddle for the time being partially because I feel more secure in it and also because I am saving my money for a treeless so this saddle will have to do in the meantime. Anyway, back to riding-

Besides looking very startled when I started saddling her, Lady took everything in stride. She even placed her head in the headstall for me when I held it out. She held still for me to get on and we walked around my small pasture, did some figure 8's and trotted just a bit. She was fine. At one point when I had gotten her close to the barn she started to fight me and was sidepassing down the hill. She slung her head and bounced a bit on the front end (never actually reared). We turned some fast tight circles and she was OK after that. All in all the ride was uneventful. This was a big confidence builder for me but I am still wary of Lady. When I used to ride her before she was prone to random, highly athletic spooks at mundane things like orange mailboxes. I have to ride by myself so I want to stay safe.

I am looking for some advice on directions I should go with Lady to get her ready for my goal of an LD ride in mid March. I do not have a trailer yet so I am limited to riding her on the farm. She is very out of shape, but also very tough and can take a lot. Are there some things I can do with her while riding her around the small pasture to get us both ready for riding farther away from the barn and other horses (out on the farm)? I don't want to get myself hurt, but I have confidence that this will work if I do things right. I am just not sure how hard to push Lady and what I can do to make us have a better working relationship. I am hoping to take her to a local fundraiser trailride on Nov. 13th just to see how she does with a crowd.

The other thing is that I would like to breed her next year for my "dream foal" I have the stallion picked out and have started stuffing money under the matress to pay for his fee. This will be her last foal so I don't want to mess anything up. What would be the optimum time to breed her next year, or does it matter since all I am wanting to do with her is LD for the time being?

Thanks in advance!

Mel

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