[RC] RC] dissappointed at ride-reply - Carrie - oddfarm
Listen Carrie, don't take all the criticism and/or
advice about your comments on your ride in a negative tone. It's all about
learning and I'll bet you learned a lot.
So the RM didn't have maps. You didn't get lost,
did you? Now you know, not every ride will have a map. But also realize
that map or no map, you could get lost. So you didn't know about any water on
the trail. Next time, you'll know to ask! However, by the time you get to the
water, it may be all gone. You didn't take very good care of yourself, but I'll
bet next time you will. No two rides will ever be the same. Be
prepared!
Don't think riders are unfriendly because they
don't socialize on Friday night. We are all busy getting our stuff ready and
taking care of our horses, hoping to get a few hours of sleep before the horn
goes off. You left after the ride and Saturday night is when everyone can relax
and have a good time.
Everyone has first time ride stories. Some are
good, and some really stink. But if you really love the sport, you'll be
addicted not matter how the ride went. I thought my first ride stunk. No maps,
we missed several turns, the trail was covered in water the whole way, it was
expensive and no frills. Plus my truck broke down on the way to the ride. I
remember writing about how bad it was, but looking back I see it was a pretty
good ride. What did I know? Now I say, "Bring it on!" and ride however I want
to.
The other choice is not to ride at all.
Give it another go, but do your homework first.
Once you have picked a ride, call the RM. You'll know exactly what to expect,
(but all things are subject to change) and you can be a little better prepared.
Ask the RM to see if she can pre-arrange a riding partner for you or speak up at
the ride meeting.
I am starting to see that nothing can be as bad on
the back of a horse, as what is going on in the real world. And if someone wants
to pray for my safety while I am riding, I say "Thank you" but don't forget to
pray for those who can't ride.
