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Re: [RC] horse partners vs horse husbands - Jon . Linderman


"... If a spouse changes on his or her own and develops a previously
unvisited interest in something you like, enjoy.  But otherwise, trying to
pressure one to change may well jeopardize the very relationship you sought
with them in the first place!

Heidi"

I couldn't agree more!  Treat your husband at least as nice as you treat
your horse................


I am more aghast at suggestions of how to trick men, since that was the
thread, into doing things there wives want, not what they want.  Its funny
that people on RC can get all up in arms about going straight to H-E-double
hockey sticks for using a, dare I say it, martingale, but have no problem
suggesting manipulating ones sex life or other other mind games to get what
you want as a wife.  You'll gentle a horse but gladly put a chain over
hubbies nose if you could get him to trot along behind you.  Number one
compalins to me all the time about the man she left me for.........the mail
man, who was everythig she wanted..........boring!  She got what she
wanted, I got the kids, traded up for a wonderful horse loving best friend
(former model too!) & haven't changed or knuckled under one bit for this
one either.  I let her be the person I fell in love with and she likewise
lets me be the person she fell in love with.

Ladies, watch the "Broken Hearts Club" and see if that isn't exactly what
you want your man to be............with one minor exception.



Jon



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