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Steph Teeter wrote:
> Great idea! lordy let's hope it works :)
I bet it won't.

The description of the problem sounds more like the transactional game 
"Why Don't You... Yes But" than any addiction.  The purpose of the game 
is for the Victim to get attention and to feel better (in a childish 
sense, "See, you're just as inadequate as I am") about leaving the water 
on when all the Rescuers who try to help fail too (none of their 
suggestions work because V won't let them).


Leaving the water on once in a great while is normal.  We've all done 
it.  Leaving it on chronically is just a game.  The only "cure" is for V 
to confront his own feelings to determine why he needs such a childish 
ploy to get attention.


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