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Re: Re: [RC] barefoot trim - recklessheartranch

Great post! Truer words were never spoken. When will people realize that very, 
very few things are black or white?

There is "Dead" and there is "Alive" and those things are pretty cut and dried 
(usually...), but in the middle is a WHOLE LOT of "grey".

Lots and lots of ways to skin cats, especially if the cats are horses.

Katrina


From: Diane Trefethen <tref@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Date: 2008/08/12 Tue PM 03:14:44 CDT
To: ridecamp camp <ridecamp@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Subject: Re: [RC]   barefoot trim

One of the primary reasons Ridecamp has some hostile exchanges is that 
too often, we write a post and then send it off without reviewing it 
with an impartial eye.  We are so upset by what another person has said 
or so enthusiastic about our own point of view that we can't seem to 
help writing a email with a few (or a lot of) snide jabs, insults, 
and/or comments deprecating the intelligence or demeaning the character 
of all the people who do not think as we think or do as we do.

To avoid this, before you push the Send button, it is a good idea to 
re-read your post from the point of view of those who do not see things 
your way.  If you have written, "LD's are just training rides for 
beginners", imagine YOU are an LD rider who hasn't enough time to 
condition for a 50 or has a physical limitation and then you read that 
you're efforts are being dismissed because you are just a "beginner". 
How would you feel?  Often it's not WHAT is said but HOW it is said.  If 
you originally wrote, "It would be stupid to use a pudgy, muscle-bound 
Quarterhorse if you want to compete seriously in Endurance", why not 
say, "Although there are many exceptions, the larger muscle masses in a 
Quarterhorse make heat dissipation more difficult".

Steph asked a serious question in a straightforward way, expecting 
answers that would provide her with more information and a better 
understanding of the Barefoot Trim and what did she get?  Two responses 
that are prototypes of the two approaches above.  One response is 
informative with six major points, unemotional and devoid of sarcasm, 
clearly aimed at providing information.  The other uses 3 times as many 
words to provide only four major points (one only a referral) but it 
includes a lot insults to those who use shoes on their horses and worse, 
implies that if you can't do it barefoot, you shouldn't have a horse at 
all.  This I surmise from the fact that there is absolutely no advice 
given for those who do not meet the minimum requirements, as presented 
by this author, on how to provide good hoofcare.  There are no less than 
10 statements/comments that are offensive but could have so easily been 
informative instead.  Two examples:

"Steel shoes hold the hoof together when the horse is being forced to 
live in the wrong conditions..."
Wrong?  Right and wrong are moral judgments.  A stall may or may not be 
the best way to keep a horse, depending on what that horse is expected 
to do, but stalling a horse is not immoral.  Why not say,
"Steel shoes can hold the hoof together when a horse does not have 
access 24/7 turnout or pasture."

"By hiring a farrier to take responsibility for the horses feet, the 
owner only needs to know how to write a check."
An amazingly cruel slap at anyone who hires a farrier.  Why not say,
"Some owners who hire a farrier to put shoes on their horses forget that 
it is their responsibility to monitor their horses' way of going."

So if you want to influence people, remember, you can catch more flies 
with honey than vinegar.  Phrase your advice clearly and dispassionately 
and avoid cleverly worded (you think) but insulting criticisms.


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Katrina O'Neal
Reckless Heart Ranch
822 Estates Loop
Priest River, ID 83856
(208)265-4837
recklessheartranch@xxxxxxxxxxx

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