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RE: [RC] [RC] Leaving horse's buddy behind to go to rides - Ranelle Rubin

Jennifer,

They eventually, (like they do with everything else we do that goes against their herd instinct) get over it. I have two who are bonded so closely, you would think they are one horse some days. When I don't have someone to ride my second horse, I have to leave one home...the one left cries for a few minutes, then gets over it. I do have hot wire around their pasture which increases the respect level of fencing.

You are on the right track working on it now though. Just put your horse in a trailer and leave for a few hours, having the person who is home watch what happens..I bet your mare (or whoever is left behind) will settle down within a few minutes...I typically will leave an extra half flake for the one who is at home to munch on while we are gone..."food for thought"



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From: Jennifer Fleet <jlthompson@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
To: Ridecamp <ridecamp@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Subject: [RC]   Leaving horse's buddy behind to go to rides
Date: Thu, 21 Sep 2006 16:50:18 -0700

Hi all,

I recently moved to Florida from SoCal, and I finally have horse property. Yay!

We will be moving my two horses to the property in two weeks, after escrow closes. I realize that I will be facing a problem that I never had before, while boarding. That is, how do I leave my mare behind, all alone, when I want to take my gelding to rides?

Others must have this problem and I'm wondering how they deal with it. Does the horse left behind eventually get used to being left and chill out? Has anybody had any tragedies happen? I am having horrible thoughts of her running herself to death, or running through a fence and getting injured, or trying to climb out of her stall and getting hurt (if I put her in the barn). I don't know what would be safest, putting her in a stall while I'm gone, or leaving her in the pasture, or what.

Any advice in this area would be appreciated. My plan for now, is to start out by either hand walking or riding my gelding around the property, gradually going farther and farther away, in longer increments of time. At the boarding facility where they are now (a place here in FL - just temporary) they both freak out if I take the other out of their sight. But it's just noise at this point (LOTS of screaming) and there are still other horses around.

I have considered taking on a boarder to alleviate the problem and may still do it if I find the perfect person, but my homeowner's insurance policy strictly forbids it, and I'm scared to death of the liability factor if something were to happen and I'm not covered. And I don't want to own another critter just to make "three"....I've got enough mouths to feed already.

Thanks for any ideas or words of wisdom!

Jennifer



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