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[RC] buddy problem (long) - k s swigartRene said: no matter how nice i put it, she will be upset if i tell her I'm doing my own thing and don't want to do things with her any more. but I've had enough and am not enjoying myself any more. what am i to do? Unless you are married or related to this person, it is difficult for me to see how this is a difficult problem. You don't have to TELL her anything, just stop doing things with her. If she asks you why, tell her that you would rather not. You don't have to tell her why. You don't have to make excuses. And you most definitely don't have to tell her it is because you think that she is doing it all wrong and that you think she should do it your way. And just because you have stopped riding and training and conditioning together at all times doesn't (necessarily) mean that you can't continue to use her truck and your trailer to get both of you to the same places at the same time (it depends upon your dispositions). Worst case scenario....you have to get your own truck, or find somebody else who is willing to share a ride without thinking that means you have to do everything else together. kat Orange County, Calif. =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= http://www.endurance.net/ads/seabiscuit.html Ridecamp is a service of Endurance Net, http://www.endurance.net. Information, Policy, Disclaimer: http://www.endurance.net/Ridecamp Subscribe/Unsubscribe http://www.endurance.net/ridecamp/logon.asp Ride Long and Ride Safe!! =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
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