Re: [RC] [RC] Parelli (and other clinicians) - Mary Ann Spencer
we have friends, one in particular, who
is big time clinician junkie, and I cannot TELL you how many times we have
gotten phone calls to come over - she got bitten, run over, muscled into,
stepped on, and the list goes on. She will NOT discipline her horse, so when we
WOULD go over to "rescue" her from her "trained" horse, it was a losing battle,
because the horse would try to trample US so he would not have to do whatever
she had in mind, and one was not allowed to even poke her horse,
That person was NOT a Parelli
student........ you discipline the way the mare would..........AND that person
just may be needing the Darwinian Award for stupidity with
horses.......
A big problem with trainers is that they can
ride the horse but when the horse returns home the owner doesn't have the right
skill set to ride/train that horse. EVERY day is a training day, every
interaction is a training one. Danged if they don't remember the bad
behavior first!!! It takes 10 atta boys to get rid of one
ah-shit.
Subject: Re: [RC] [RC] Parelli (and other
clinicians)
In a message dated 8/25/2007 8:20:03 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time, dakota.charm@xxxxxxxxx writes:
If
they are having fun with their horse, and the horse is happy, and being a
partner.. then who cares if they ride or not? People need to be
safe and have fun with their horses... there are a lot of New to horse
people, and if they are not having fun and safe while with their horse,
then they usually get out of horses...
I think this is the crux of the problem - we have friends, one in
particular, who is big time clinician junkie, and I cannot TELL you how many
times we have gotten phone calls to come over - she got bitten, run over,
muscled into, stepped on, and the list goes on. She will NOT discipline her
horse, so when we WOULD go over to "rescue" her from her "trained" horse, it
was a losing battle, because the horse would try to trample US so he would not
have to do whatever she had in mind, and one was not allowed to even poke her
horse, so we had to wait until she wasn't looking and SMACK him to get off our
toes, out of our space, etc.
She was (and IS) NOT safe, NOT having fun, the horses are SURLY, not
HAPPY, and not any KIND of a partner - more like a bulldozer - and then went
and produced a foal by this "union". ugh! Second generation bulldozer. Yes,
she rides- takes about 90 MINUTES to get ready with all the accouterments,
PLUS now ponying said second generation dozer along...sigh! Will NOT ride
alone and such a pain in the behind to WAIT for...so no one wants to ride with
her anymore...sound like fun yet? She is one of several Parelli "grads" i know
who have these issues - hers are just the worst because she doesn't fit into
any of the descriptive words above - fun, happy, partner....and yes, people DO
care what people like this do - because they are an open HAZARD to other
riders who are in control and frankly a whole lot smarter.
San (who expects her horses to walk on THEIR feet, not mine!)
