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 Being new to horses (only hung out with my first 
one back in late 98, and didn't get started till spring 99 when my wife (then 
girlfriend) went to some event for a week (Pan Am in Canada?, She's asleep so I 
can't ask her) and I got stuck grooming and feeding for a week) I have been 
doing a lot of reading to "catch up" in my knowledge 
deficiency.   
  
Everyone agrees that it's important your 
horse sees you as "boss" or "alpha" or "leader" or whatever (so long it's 
#1).  This seems to be across the board whether it's an old book, or a 
recent book.   
  
My question is:  How did you establish this 
with your horse?  What has worked?  Do you use the 7 games of Pat 
Parelli?  Do you use a roundpen and run the horse around for a long 
time?  Do you use "passive leadership" as championed by Mark Rashid?  
Do you try to do it by presenting a "good feel" to the horse like Bill Dorrance 
and Leslie Desmond write about?  Or do you use some 
combination or change as needed depending on the horse? 
  
How did you become your horses "#1"? 
  
Charles 
PS: Personally, I found a lot of grooming 
worked for my mare Keepers, but then she's vain.  Jon on the other 
hand isn't vain and that hasn't worked for him.  
      
  
  
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  Sent: Monday, November 25, 2002 5:49 
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  Subject: Re: [RC] Making Dog Food! 
  
  
  Karen, I can tell you what Pat would say about this situation:  You'e 
  right this is not a scared horse.  This is a respect issue.  A horse 
  that has learned a behavior and simply refuses to do it is challenging your 
  leadership.  They are hard wired to do this constantly.  Its your 
  job to be a good leader, EVERY DAY.  Simply. 
    Sullivan <greymare@xxxxxxx> wrote: 
   
    
    
    Kathy, 
      
    You will notice several omissions from that 
    article.  Parelli does  NOT adress the horse that once HAD been 
    trained to tie, but now uses it to get out of situations it plain does not 
    want to do ( having mouth touched, etc).  And, at the end of the 
    article, he makes no mention that this horse, with all this 
    training....should be trained to be tied to a solid object!!  I am not 
    talking about a truly panicked horse, but a spoiled one.   
        
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