At 08:52 AM 1/6/2002 -0800, Claudia Provin wrote:
>I have tried saying....have you ever heard
>> of ____ or have you ever tried _____ and make it sound as if
YOU are
>> looking for THEIR advice.
> Another way might be by telling anecdotes - "I know
a person who
>did such and such" "Such and such happened to me when I
did such and such."
>
>Claudia
>
Yeah, and they'll STILL get mad at you, Claudia. I've discovered
that those people think they are doing everything right and don't want to
be told anything different. I just bite my tongue now.